An unbearable situation, which leaves the most severe consequences on the victim, certainly appears if the spouses are evil people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Such \u201cfamily\u201d, i.e. couple, overpowers everyone in the surroundings, subjugates relatives and makes poor people out of them. This happens most frequently among the relatives of one partner, usually the husband. Such couple, depending on the degree of malice, usurps wealth, does not help their mother and father, only finds meaning in money, always hides it or keeps it secretly abroad, buys properties and perfectly disguises and hides those riches. Such marital partners have no friends, and if they do declare some persons as their friends, those people are surely friends because of the benefits, chosen by the position in the society and politics. Such partners are in politics also for the sake of their benefit and they immediately change the party if it is no longer in power, giving a characteristic excuse that all people in that party are traitors and thieves.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The worst and most painful consequences are those that evil people leave on close relatives. This is especially visible if a woman who comes into the family as daughter-in-law or sister-in-law is more evil than her husband. In a refined and imperceptible manner, she winds her husband around her finger. He thinks that her ideas are actually his own and falls into a trap. She uses her husband to take advantage of his family, in order to succeed in accumulating material goods. The husband, who now possesses her mind, has no mercy toward his relatives and only gets satisfied when he turns his brothers and sisters into poor individuals by his torture, and when he acquires all the wealth, of which he is afterwards proud in front of them. Those evil people keep their parents, brothers and sisters very close, not because they love them, since they feel nothing for them and are happiest when the earth covers them, but in order to impudently exploit them and show them who is the head of the house and all relatives, how they protect and love them, and how they can use their wealth to help in a crisis, when someone gets sick, whereas they are the real cause of the crisis and sickness. When such evil people destroy someone, they are the first who run up to offer help in order to hide their evil, they search for doctors and are present all the time next to the patient, so the others could see them as benefactors. At the end, those people are revered gravediggers of their family. Such \u201cbig brother\u201d realises everything that his wife whispers to his ear. To the relatives, she is a \u201cgood daughter-in-law or sister-in-law\u201d, who actually shows to her husband which family member, parent, brother or sister, should be pressed against the wall, but the relatives are unaware of that. In the majority of cases, they do not even know what the problem is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Almost all cases show that destruction of the husband\u2019s relatives does not go so quickly to the \u201cgood daughter-in-law or sister-in-law\u201d, and therefore that woman seeks and learns how to do black magic, with which she attacks each husband\u2019s successful member of the family. She is usually unexposed, and rather sends her husband to accomplish her plans. That can be best seen if a relative resists or criticises her. Such person is \u201cfinished\u201d when the \u201cbig brother\u201d takes him into his hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The only justice that catches up with the couple is the fact that they destroy one another at the end of their lives. In the majority of cases, the victim is the husband, who did not understand during his whole life that his wife used him for her sick goals, benefit and quarrels with relatives and others. That happens in the old age, when the husband is no longer strong and willing to mistreat others, and so the wife does not need him any more, i.e. he becomes redundant. He practically served out, so his wife breaks his legs by magic protocols, makes him an invalid or he ends up his life with some severe illness like heart attack or stroke, car or other accident, and the like. Such couple cannot even stand their own children, who are usually sent far away from home. Each week, they call them by the phone in order to create an impression that they suffer without them, but in fact they cannot even stand seeing them, let alone letting them live in their house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 11.-9. When Pavle came to seek help, I did not know him very well. He was a friend of my acquaintance from Dubrovnik. He got married after his studies and stayed on the Slovenian coast until his retirement. His wife died early, and so he stayed with his son and daughter in Koper. He was born in a poor family with nine children and they all lived in Kupari near Dubrovnik. His father was a labourer, who came from Trebinje, looking for a better life. He was excluded from the former political system. Pavle\u2019s mother was a Montenegrin who lived in Cavtat since her birth. Pavle was born at the beginning of the Second World War as the fifth child and felt all changes of the regime, which he could not<\/p>\n\n\n\n influence, because others considered him too young, although he felt strong and capable and made efforts to gain his place in the society. Pavle lived well and \u2013 after the earthquake in Montenegro \u2013 began to build a house in Cavtat, near the house where his mother lived. Each year, he would spend his holidays in Cavtat, building his house a little bit, swimming, sailing and feeling happy to be with his family, which his mother raised to be harmonious and to help each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Two Pavle\u2019s sisters were married. One lived in Novi Sad, and the other one in Belgrade. The oldest brother stayed in Pula, where he met his future wife while he was in the army. The youngest brother lived in Zagreb and never married.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The second oldest brother Ranko worked as tinsmith. He stayed in Kupari, as well as brother Feliks, who loved books and became M.A. in Economics, brother Danilo, a mechanical technician, and their sister Flores, who was a nurse by education, but worked as a kindergarten teacher. The story of Pavle is really painful, as well as instructive, because it shows how the causes of severe illnesses appear and what a serious trouble human evil is, with which the whole society should become concerned. If he stayed and died on the Slovenian coast, everything would be forgotten. But, after the death of his wife, he moved to live in Cavtat, where he remembered his mother and father, who both died after the earthquake in the South Adriatic. Events from his life started to unwrap before his eyes as if being a movie:<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1<\/strong>.Brother Ranko changed several jobs in his life, state and private jobs, but when his wife Marija, called Mara, became an innkeeper, he dedicated himself to the inn and tourism which had good prospects. A bit with credits, a bit with savings, they gathered so much money that they bought, at a favourable price, a plot by the sea in Mlini, a small town near Kupari, which at that time was unsuitable for construction. Ranko started to build a fish restaurant. The whole family had no choice but to help them: the mother raised and took care of the children, the sisters arranged the surroundings of the restaurant, while the brothers did the physical work. The restaurant was finished soon: it had a nice covered terrace above the sea, the fish were visible in the water and that inaccessible area became a real bait for tourists. Day and night, Danilo was driving there stones and earth, which they used to get a large part of land from the sea. In that place, Ranko planned in detail and built a pier for small yachts and boats.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mara really knew how to cause a tense situation by saying that everything would be ruined, that everyone should work day and night, that now it was necessary to do this or that and the like. She was especially talented in catching her husband\u2019s relatives who lived far from Kupari and giving them different jobs in the restaurant during the holidays. They brought her fish, bread and other necessary goods for the inn, helped her in the kitchen, cooked, washed and cleaned, and outside the restaurant, they planted palms, agaves, oleanders, olives and laurel groves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Domestic and foreign tourists, business people and other respectable guests visited the restaurant, which became famous in the near and far surroundings. Business blossomed and brought profit, expenses were very small, because the relatives worked almost for free and sometimes got only food, and a few workers were employed only for the sake of tourists. Today, during the season the restaurant has almost thirty employees, while relatives no longer help out, because they became unwanted. If they by chance visit the \u201cbig brother\u201d or \u201cgood sister-in-law\u201d, Mara takes them to a special room outside the restaurant and leaves them there with an excuse that she must work, since special guests came to the restaurant and she cannot stay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ranko used every opportunity to expand his property and bought an old holiday home at the auction. With Pavle\u2019s help, he bought a larger property near Cavtat and built a private beach, bought several building plots and several apartments. Those were only the things that Pavle could remember, but said that there was much more. Ranko\u2019s daughter, who was married and lived in Florida, USA, was his bookkeeper. No one knew exactly how much wealth he had, but he was surely a millionaire, although he constructed no building that could be a sign of his wealth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n On the other side, Pavle only saw sadness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2.<\/strong>Feliks, Pavle\u2019s brother with whom he always got along great, used every spare moment for studies, got a job in the company INA as an expert in marketing. Besides working, he became M.A. in Economics. He received an apartment from the company and moved in. In the company, he was in charge of marketing, but there was no understanding for the realisation of his modern and progressive ideas, since the former regime was more inclined toward political than expert solutions. He got sick with severe depression and, after a long therapy, he was employed as a disabled worker with reduced working hours. According to medical diagnosis, he had to undergo regular monthly check-ups. Ranko helped Feliks with the therapy and therefore received from the court the guardianship over him until his death, which was very sad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3.<\/strong>Sister Flores loved working with children, never married and always had time to help everyone and was practically always available. She was unselfishly committed and at hand to all her relatives. She was especially attached to Feliks, for whom she cooked, washed and maintained his apartment. In that way, brother Ranko had no responsibilities toward Feliks, although he was supposed to take care of him. He thought that Flores should do all that, because that was her responsibility as a sister. In the beginning, Flores lived in a prefabricated shack next to Pavle\u2019s house in Cavtat. Later, Pavle moved her and Danilo into the constructed half of the house. She loved arranging gardens, planting vegetables and fruits, which Ranko used well \u2013 she arranged the surroundings of the fish restaurant. There she planted and grew many species of trees and flowers from the whole Mediterranean. Worn-out from the constant work in the kindergarten and around brothers and sisters, her health deteriorated and she retired as a disabled person. She did not live to a mature old age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4.<\/strong>Danilo married quickly, had two children and tried to build a house, but did not succeed due to constant pressure of his brother Ranko and sister-in-law Mara, who forced him to work for them constantly, besides his regular job and family. He started to drink and became an alcoholic. The misfortune was even larger when he broke his hip during the treatment of alcoholism and was left with a shorter leg after several operations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Already at the beginning of his house\u2019s construction, Pavle saw that his brother Danilo and sister Flores lived in bad conditions in a prefabricated shack, so he moved them both into the finished part of the house to provide them with a warm winter. Thus, he became a subtenant in his own house. Due to that favour to his brother and sister, he experienced severe quarrels in his own family, but thought that it would be easier for his family to survive the short period of vacations, than for the brother and sister to survive the whole year, and the house was empty during the winter anyway. After retirement, Pavle spent most of his time in Cavtat. He saw the situation with eyes wide open and decided to sell the apartment in Koper and help sister Flores and brother Danilo to build their own houses. He also wanted to finish his own house, which seemed rather as an adaptation and renovation after twenty-five years of construction. The construction began: Pavle arranged the documentation with Danilo, gave advice on the construction of the house, gave money for construction and equipment to his sister, and she carefully organised works. The construction started to advance. Pavle noticed that Mara frequently nervously circled around the construction sites and that made him think. His conclusion made him shiver: he and his brothers and sisters who lived far from the place of birth lived a healthy and good life and were respected in the society, while brothers and sisters who stayed in Cavtat, all except wealthy Ranko, were sick, without roof over their heads and represented an obvious example of poverty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He began to remember the events from the past, when he could not understand why Mara used to tell to her husband: \u201cRanko, your brother came with a new car. He will not need it right now, so you should take it and go to Zadar.\u201d Or, when the sisters were arranging the gardens around Ranko\u2019s restaurant from five to eleven in the morning, she would shout: \u201cRanko, did the crazy aunts leave?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Danilo experienced many similar reprimands, e.g. when he went each morning at three o\u2019clock to Molunat, thirty kilometres away, to bring fish for Ranko\u2019s restaurant, she would nervously comment: \u201cWhere have you been, where do you wander around, look how you ruined this car of mine, it was a beautiful car once\u2026\u201d (that car was twelve years old) or \u201cWhere were you driving? There is no more fuel!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Danilo had to fill the fuel tank and repair the car with his money, just to avoid quarrels, so it is no wonder that he had so many problems in his family and started to drink. Pavle remembered mother\u2019s words after Ranko\u2019s wedding and her encounter with daughter-in-law: \u201cWe got a daughter-in-law whom everyone will have to respect, but it will not be easy, just look at her eyes.\u201d Pavle also received a blow from Ranko, which he could not understand for a long time. Once he told Ranko that he had difficulties related to the construction of the house of Flores and Danilo. Ranko harshly replied: \u201cWhy are you giving them money?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pavle was simply paralysed by that statement, because his mother raised him and his brothers and sisters to be of service to each other, to stick together and help each other. This statement hit him directly into his heart. He realised that he was blinded by mother\u2019s upbringing and that Ranko and Mara were typical examples of evil people, who used all the family, including their mother and father, for their selfish interests, grabbing and amassing wealth. Sister Flores did move into her half-finished part of the house, which she wanted very much, but soon got sick and died after some months in very peculiar circumstances. In the last months of her life, the \u201cbig brother\u201d who obviously had a woman\u2019s brain and the \u201cgood sister-in-law\u201d visited her regularly and served her. According to the comments of the neighbours, visits of Ranko and Mara looked rather like checks to avoid her recovery due to somebody else\u2019s help, than a true wish for her to recover. When Flores became immobile, Mara maliciously told her: \u201cDo you really think that you are going to recover?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the funeral, Ranko locked the house of Flores, which was built beside Pavle\u2019s house and with Pavle\u2019s money, and took the key with him. Pavle proposed his brother to give him a spare key, because he lived beside that house. He borrowed his sister the furniture and kitchen equipment. The house should be protected against damp and water. He experienced something that he would never dream of. His brother started to offend him by saying: \u201cWhat do you want? The house will be locked because I decided so, and you will not see the key as long as I live.\u201d Pavle had no choice but to report his brother to the police, to give a statement in the court for probate proceedings or to leave everything to oblivion. On the day of Flores\u2019 birthday, in front of the closed door of the sister\u2019s house that he paid for, he lit a candle in her memory.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At the end of that long and sad story, Pavle asked me for help, because otherwise he would go mad. With an imploring look, he asked me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cAm I already insane or is this happening to somebody else?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n I explained to Pavle that he experienced painful times, that it would be difficult to change anything and that he was a victim of evil people, who are numerous in our society. That was his personal misfortune. He must reconcile to his fate and understanding that he still has a possibility to live with his children in Koper, while there is no help for his sisters and brothers in Cavtat, because they got acquainted too late with the evil of their sister-in-law and big brother\u2019s blindness. When he calmed a bit, I proposed him a therapy with life-cosmic energy and healing of energy relations among relatives, so that he would stop suffering. I proposed him three therapies and two checks, which he automatically accepted. Already after the second therapy, he became serene and satisfied.<\/p>\n\n\n\n At the end of treatment, Pavle thanked me and said that I moved the tragedy of his family, his hurt feelings and thoughts to the Middle Ages. He had not met his brother since their sister\u2019s funeral, but they would have to sit officially next to each other during the probate proceedings in the court: a humane and honest worker next to corrupt and malicious rich man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n An unbearable situation, which leaves the most severe consequences on the victim, certainly appears if the spouses are evil people. Such \u201cfamily\u201d, i.e. couple, overpowers everyone in the surroundings, subjugates relatives and makes poor people out of them. This happens most frequently among the relatives of one partner, usually the husband. 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